6 bad habit money
1. Bad setting:
Very root of evils in money habit is the relationship setting which is keeping you losing money.
Example: Friend with benefits
What is FwB? Is a relationship that you don't want to take the official name the authority, the relationship of using each other, keep you being poor by self-sabotaged.
How you want the relationship is would be? Money is the creation, fiction being out of anyone control, they hardworking and obey, but base on what you treating them, it would gone or cheating you with other.
2. Fear of authority: why we keep our relation as a bwf in the beginning? We don't wanna learn, don't want to involved deeper to the complicated of an relationship. Be afraid of admit that money, that person are in relationship with us. We ashemed to take care of them, don't want to let anyone known you have that kind of relationship.
That leading to number 3
3. Fear: fear of losing money, fear of have more money
You avoid to commit the authority then you fear to lose them, you fear they gonna fk with other people they have their boyfriend girlfriend wife husband, you fear more them get in front of you asking for taking care for them. Fear = Fail Expectations Appear Real
4. Greedy: you set it fwb cuz. you want to own them but take no effort. It making your emotional bank negative by see thing you don't have, then you disability to own.
5. Regret: if I, I should be, I shouldn't be, ...
When you easily falling to assume a thing not base on analyst just base on a feeling name Regret. And you keep assume the last decision is mistaken by the past, that's totally a mess, garbage not the whole picture. It make every step you make become a budern from the past, create a image of the past
6. And you live in the past forever.
The best way we can is claim that money is a person, recognize and treat them as a healthy relationship, cut all the past relationship cut off the root, start like a new game account or another girl. Set the healthy relationship to have a good core, life still go on and you gonna make mistakes again. when other habit coming up to you, you always can learn, swift, improve, implement, it again.
And you can set all the kind of healthy relationship you want.
Like my idea: Set money relationship as a King And money is my Royal Guard.
Acquire your soldier very carefully, is they loyal, strong, and elite?
Is they faithfully protecting you? Dying for you, keep you from threadfully enermy who look at your realm, your treasure? How do you train them, how do you rule them?
When you fear that you don't deserve the throne, you can keep in mind. A bad king still a king, as long you educated yourself, your land still your, king must learn and improve.
A long no fear when his soldier are dying, not because he intentionally let them die, for afraid of acquiring more, all the fear is the lesson and implementation.
No greedy king long last his throne, he know the land scale with the effort he must given for his land, he own what his power suppose to own, the realm scaling with his ability, the greedy only acquire the disobey and traitor untrained soldier.
When the king confusing in his regret, the fight still on going. He have no right for regret, the king given decision in the past he losing his country in the present, and have no future. A nation of past is the nation of damn.
When the king living in this past, the guard have no model to protect soldier in his realm losing faith, corruption, disobey, law disappeared, the land being own by Barbarians, thief, spreading the evils. The entire of his kingdom falling down of history.
Since, the king always able to reclaim his crown, set rule and bring the thrive as his ability for taking care for his people.
